👉 New Year, New Goals… How to Reach Your Dog Training Goals (Without the Frustration)

Happy girl and well-trained dog

Every year, dog owners set big goals: better behavior, less stress, more freedom.
And every year, many of those goals quietly fade by February.

Not because you don’t care — but because you didn’t set yourself (or your dog) up for success.

Here’s how to do it differently.

1. Get Help From a Professional

Most people start with, “We can probably figure this out ourselves.”
And sometimes you can — but it usually takes longer, comes with more frustration, and leaves gaps you don’t even realize are there.

A professional trainer:

  • Sees problems you’re too close to notice

  • Gives you a clear, efficient plan instead of guesswork

  • Pushes you (and your dog) further than you’d go on your own

Yes, it’s an investment. But it often saves months (or years) of stress and dramatically improves your day-to-day life with your dog.

2. Define Success — Clearly and Specifically

Goals like “less anxious” or “more confident” are a start, but they’re too vague to train effectively.

Instead, ask:

  • What does this look like in real life?

  • Where is this actually causing problems?

For example:

  • “Doesn’t come when called if scared”

  • “Breaks out of the crate when anxious”

  • “Shuts down in new environments”

Clear goals give you something concrete to train — and when those improve, the bigger picture usually improves too.

3. Be Honest About Your Own Habits

Training isn’t just about fixing your dog — it’s about fixing the patterns that created the behavior.

If your dog loses their mind when guests arrive…
but you come through the door hyped, loud, and excited every time — that’s information.

Progress starts when you’re willing to say:

“What am I doing that might be contributing to this?”

Ownership is powerful. And it’s necessary.

4. Don’t Try to Fix Everything at Once

If your dog has 10–15 nuisance behaviors, resist the urge to tackle all of them immediately.

Pick one or two and be consistent.

When you focus:

  • Your timing improves

  • Your consistency improves

  • Your dog gets clearer information

As leadership and structure improve, many smaller issues resolve on their own.

5. Schedule Training You Can Actually Stick To

Perfect plans fail when they’re unrealistic.

If daily sessions aren’t realistic for your life, don’t pretend they are. That only leads to burnout and quitting altogether.

Instead:

  • Schedule 3–4 training sessions per week

  • Keep them around 20–30 minutes

  • Protect that time like an appointment

Consistency beats intensity every time.

6. Ignore the Noise and Lead Your Dog

Setting boundaries will get comments:

  • “That’s too strict.”

  • “You’re being mean.”

  • “I wouldn’t do it that way.”

That’s okay.

Your dog doesn’t need everyone’s approval - and neither do you.
Your dog needs clarity, structure, and leadership — especially when things are hard.

Carry that responsibility confidently.
Your dog is better for it.

Jennifer Hime is the owner and training director of Front Range K9 Academy in Wheat Ridge & Northern Colorado. She can be reached at https://www.frontrangek9noco.com

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